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Suppose water flows into a leaky tank. Water comes in with rate ri(t) and flows out with rate ro(t). Let h(t) be the height of water in the tank. If we assume ro(t)∝h(t) and h(t) obeys water conservation i.e. ∂th(t)∝ri(t)−ro(t), then
∂tro(t)∝∂th(t)∝ri(t)−ro(t)The constant of proportionality must have units 1/time. One over the constant is frequently called the time constant τ:
τ∂tr1(t)=ri(t)−ro(t)